Wow. I think I'm done.

When I set out over Christmas break to explore the world of blogging, I expected some different things than what has turned out to be true of this increasinly popular pasttime. I envisioned this space to be particularly useful to and read by my family so that they might check up on my every day life, however, I do not think my sister has ever looked at the page and I haven't given my parents or other family members the address so I know they aren't amongst the 16 viewers I've had in the past 2 1/2 months. I am an avid journaler and I've found that keeping a blog has actually lessened the quality and frequency of my personal journaling, which is highly more beneficial and important to me. Thirdly, I've been so busy of late with West Side Story and life that I haven't even wanted the clutter of the thought of needing to blog in my mind.

So you see I'm sure where this is leading...a grand goodbye for now. I'm not getting rid of the site altogether, because who knows what days of delightful boredom the summer might bring, but I desire a clean break for now. It's not a break up, just a break...

a few random thoughts

Got the official word today: they're wigging me! I am actually extremely thrilled that I will not be dying my hair. The costume director said that she would never do that to me and we are getting a very expensive wig that will be perfect!

I'm going to Puerto Rico for Spring Break! Me and 9 of the greatest girlfriends ever will be spending 8 days vacationing and enjoying life together in San Juan!

In general I am a fan of facebook and myspace - even to the point of having an account on both (I primarily use facebook now but imagine I'll be transitioning into myspace after graduation). They are not perfect communication mediums, but I appreciate that it randomly brings people's faces into view who I haven't thought of in a while and I can check out what they're up to and without a tedious long message let them know I was thinking about them. However, I've just squandered an hour perusing pictures and reading wall posts of some high school friends...ridiculous in light of all the work I have to do.

I think it is really a shame that for the last couple decades especially, it has been drilled into Christian young girls' heads that they need to be independent in Christ before ever thinking about being with a guy and that something is wrong with them if they long for a relationship because Christ should be all that they need. While there is some good truth buried in these ideas and my subscribing to these ideas for my own life is part of what kept me from many broken relationships, I have recently come to embrace the fact that we were created for companionship. Adam was lonely for a woman even while experiencing perfect oneness with God and God said that it was not good. Adam's longing for a mate was not what God found unsatisfactory, but that a deep desire of the being He formed and loved was unfulfilled. I long for a companion, to follow him into wild adventures, unravel the mysteries of life one day at a time together, and have a permanent dance partner. However, the difference between me and Adam is that it is still good for me to be alone. One day it will no longer be the best plan and God will choose to fulfill my desire either by leading a man to pursue me or by taking me home to be in His presence - the second would be better by far!

after V-day blues

I, like many of my other single friends, go through a mini-depression this time every year. However, unlike others, my low is February 15th, not the 14th. You see, I LOVE Valentine's Day! Everyone running around with chocolate and roses and balloons spilling out everywhere...hugs abounding and appreciations for all loved ones flowing forth from tongues sans any hesitation...why can't every day be like that?! This is the primary reason for my sadness the day after. Where did all the love go? I was absolutely giddy Tuesday all day and especially in the night after I gave a special Valentine. I gave the valentine because it was for our Sadie Hawkins Dance this Saturday; it was so much fun to surprise a guy and ask him. I barely know him...my asking him was more than random and bordering on impulsive...but we are going to have an amazing time Saturday night, I know! I always have a great time at dances. So here's a blog shoutout to my friend and date, Kyle Mains!

p.s. I've decided to add the comment feature because I commented the other day on one of my friend's blog and really felt like my comment added something to the post and was appreciated by him. So please, say hi and comment on anything you like!

little update

It's been a while since I've blogged. I keep spotting life happenings that would be great blogs, but I just haven't had the aptitude to put them down on the computer. Here are some highlights from the past week.

**West Side Story is going very well...I've been singing like crazy, but we are starting to sound really good.

**Sailfish Cup was this weekend and Southside (my team) tore it up. We won overall and Sportsmanship. For my part, I played ultimate frisbeen, soccer, and volleyball. I love SC because it is just one crazy intense weekend of playing.

**I miss my baby Annabelle so badly right now. Sister sent some pictures of them in the snow...I would do anything to fly up there for a weekend and play with them.

**Spring Break plans keep coming together and falling apart. Initially it was just a girls' trip to Puerto Rico, but then New York came into the picture 'cause Candice got accepted to Colombia and has to be there one day for orientation. We found these crazy deals on JetBlue to go from here to NYC to San Juan and back for cheap!, but we didn't act soon enough and the flight back sold out. Then we got on a cruise kick because it would be all paid for and we wouldn't have to worry about hotel or anything. Now...I have no idea, we all really want a fun adventure and I want to go to PR more than anything...we'll see.

Yeah Intramural Champs!

WE WON! It was such a great ultimate frisbee game last night, though it was very late...it didn't start until after 11:00 pm. But we won! Yay! I'm not really even sure what the name of our team is but it is such a great group of friends and we worked well together. I even made a touchdown...woohoo.

I stayed on the detox for yesterday and ended up feeling a ton better in the afternoon and though I was weak during the game some, I was able to play the whole time and I played hard too. I met with the school nurse though to talk about this diet and what was happening in my body and she advised that I stop it. She said that she doesn't think this is the healthiest detox diet out there but that it is probably fine for normal, healthy people to do. I guess the whole problem has been because of my hypoglycemia my insulin production is all over the board because I'm only putting this sugar into my body without any protein. I haven't broken it yet, though. I don't know what to do because I feel so much better today and I would like to see this through till the end if possible, but there is a danger of my hitting another low and she said it would probably be worse than yesterday's. A lot to think and pray through..the Lord will show me

I'm thinking about breaking it...

I've felt awful today. I was so shaky this morning and weak that I ended up staying in bed until 9:30 and I went to bed at 10:30 last night! I'm just not sure how smart this is since it is way interfering with my life now. I missed two classes today too and have felt very disjointed and unable to do my best work. I have this ultimate frisbee CHAMPIONSHIP game tonight and I really want to play, but I'm not sure I have enough energy, although I am feeling a lot better now than most of today. I would really like to stick it out at least through tomorrow since they say that day 3 & 4 are the worst. I also haven't spent barely any time with the Lord in the past two days so basically I've been trying to do this on my own which could account for my wanting to quit. I'm not sure what to do. I'm going to go ask the Lord for some serious direction...we'll see how He leads and whether I am obedient whichever way that leading is.

Day 3

Today is the first day that I've really felt sick. The first day was more about resisting cravings and yesterday I really only had one craving when one of my roomates made some cinnamon toast in the morning. Yesterday afternoon though, I got a slight headache and by 10:30 pm I was absolutely done and fell into my bed with tiredness and a much worse headache. I skipped my morning classes today because I felt so sick. The salt water has become easier and easier each day though. I was surprised yesterday how much easier it was than the first day and then this morning I just chugged it down like nothing...well, almost.

The five of us had "dinner" together last night. I put our drinks in wine glasses and served it on a tray in our living room. It was fun and we all left very encouraged. We talked a lot about the spiritual side of this fast which really wasn't at all our intent going into it, but at least for me it is impossible to fast like this unless I am depending on the Lord and there is a higher reason for me doing it than just cleansing my body. One of my all-time favorite books is A Hunger for God by John Piper. It is a beautiful book on Biblical fasting. I went back over that the other night and have been reminding myself and my fellow adventurers about its truth. Here are a few little snipits:

"From time to time we need to test ourselves to see if we have begun to love His gifts in place of God."
"The aim of fasting is that we come to rely less on food and more on God."
"Will I find spiritual communion with God sweet enough, and hope in His promises deep enough, not just to cope, but to flourish and rejoice in Him? Or will I rationalize away my need to fast and retreat to the medication of food?"

I am so inspired by this book, which uses Foster's Celebration of Disciplines (another amazing book) as a resource and for some great quotes. It has taught me more about this area of my relationship with the Lord and cultivating, through fasting, a longing for Him and for His kingdom.

all psychology enthusiasts, read on

I anticipate that my blogs will take on a new level of unusualness for the next ten days. You see today is Day 1 of a Master Detox adventure that me, Jess, Candice, CLiff and Patrick have embarked on together. Heaven help us! They have been planning on doing this ridiculous, awful lemonade fast for a week now. I stayed away from their propaganda because I wanted no part in it. They had set today as the day to begin so I made them a good dinner last night and somehow over the course of that dinner I went from total disdain of this idea to full participation in it. Here is what the next 10 days entail for me eating-wise:

**Every morning we chug 1 quart of water mixed with 2 tsp. sea salt - after experiencing this morning's chug I can tell you this is by far the most awful thing I have ever done. This will be the hardest part, but also the thing that cleanses your system the most.
**Throughout the day we drink 6-12 glasss of this lemonade mixture which is 1 cup water, 2 tbsp fresh squeezed lemon juice, and 1 tbsp Grade B molasses. This actually tastes good, but the smell is what we will get sick of the quickest.
**We also take 2-3 cayenne pepper supplements throughout the day.
**Before bed we drink this detox laxative tea - and let me tell you, it works.

That's the deal I've gotten myself into. I think really I just didn't want to be left out of this adventure they are having. Also, I recently blogged about wanting to eat better and get control of my cravings, but it just hasn't happened so this is a way of breaking me of my dependency on food. I also got a call last night that West Side Story rehearsals, which was one of the biggest things holding me back from the diet because I need all my energy for rehearsals, are cancelled this week due to One Acts. So here we go...I might go crazy for a few days...if you see me on campus and I'm unusually crabby you now know why. I give you full permission though to walk up and tell me to 'get over it'.

i want my daddy back!

This past week we had Christival, a yearly conference at PBA intended to evangelize and spiritually refresh students. Vodie Bacchum was this year's speaker and I cannot overemphasize how amazing it was. If you ever get a chance to hear him, go! His teaching was straight from the Word and delivered in such a clear and fresh way. As a woman, I was so encouraged by his message on Biblical manhood. It was directed at all the young ladies in the room, whom he called his daughters for that session. It was a challenge to us not to let our desire for a husband overrule our need to be led by a strong man of God and it validated in me the vision that I have for a future marriage and family. This hope that I have is so often crushed and distorted that I struggle to believe it truly exists, but I know that it does. I think that godly men really do want someone to see in them the potential to be something great and they will rise to it if they are challenged and that is what Dr. Bacchum did for the guys on our campus that day. Christival ended Thurs. evening and all day Friday I felt grieved not to be able to go and receive more truth for my soul. But my time alone with the Lord has been so much richer and deeper the past two days then it was before because I am hungering for that level of Bible study and application that I've gotten all week. Too much we let ourselves drift back to spiritual milk and don't take the time to make ourselves a real dinner in the Word!

my roomates: did you kiss him yet??!!

In rehearsals today we worked on a scene in which Tony and Maria must be intimate with each other...it is where they playfully, yet seriously, recite wedding vows to each other...and needless to say, me and my Tony just aren't there yet with each other. Today was a good step though. It is just such a strange thing because we are making ourselves fall in love with each other (or at least a part of ourselves that is this character) and yet we know from the outset that we are quasi rejecting each other. How can I explain this? In real life, when falling in love there is this natural give and take vulnerability that builds over time as the level of commitment grows deeper. In acting though, we must be completely vulnerable with each other in a real way for the audience to believe our relationship, yet there is none of that strength of a real relationship to back it up. Needless to say...we still have quite a ways to go in rehearsals before we can believably and yet not too awkwardly kiss.

sugar tirade

It is both funny and very saddening how addicted to sugar we allow ourselves to get. My eating habits are all thrown off still from Christmas break and the horrible amounts of unhealthiness that I took in. I go into the kitchen to decide on dinner now and my cravings are all over the place so that I end up eating a little bit of everything attempting to satisfy that one spot in my tastebuds. No more, I say. It is past the time to get control of this. Candice and Cliff are starting this horrible detox diet thing where for a week you only drink this lemondade concoction and salt water and they have tried to convince me to join in the purifying enlightenment so that even my joints will be fully purged of waste. I at least gave it a few days thought before saying no thank you...good luck to them. I just need to cut out all sweets (except for fruit...I live off fruit) and one meal at a time reform the way I view food. It shouldn't be that hard to pass by one brownie - it isn't like it is the last opportunity I'll ever have to taste that goodness. I use food too much for comfort rather than depending on the Lord and using food for sustenance.

I'm gonna be brunette!

When I was auditioning for the role of Maria in PBA's upcoming production of West Side Story, I got nothing but encouragement about how fun it would be to dye my hair for the role and be brunette for a little while. Once I was actually cast, however, the whole world seemed to gasp and I have heard horror story after horror story of how my hair will turn purple or green or the dye will never come out because I'm so blond and several of my closer guy friends have threatened the loss of our friendship if I do this. But I am committed and thankfully the school has assured me that they will spend the money once the show is over to return my hair to its previous condition. (Thank God for that 'cause the bill will most definitely be expensive!) I still think it will be a very shocking and fun experience to be brunette for a couple weeks...so, sorry guys our friendship is up. Since we started rehearsals this week I have realized that along with the daily questions about my hair, I'm going to have to get used to the constant badgering of my friends over whether we've rehearsed the kissing scenes yet. Oh dear Lord, high school all over again!

warning: this blog will make you jealous

I live in one of THE most beautiful places in the world! I just got back from a glorious bike ride down the Lake Trail on the island...sun shining with a crisp breeze, beautiful mansions on the water...the kind of thing I'll be doing in Heaven one day.

Only one week since I've been back and yet it seems like much longer. It has been one fun experience after another, with a little class in between. Yesterday we slept in and then the roomies went to Dontee's for breakfast where we soaked up a long overdue 2 hours together. Then a group of us went up to Stuart to help David and Alan work on their boat. They recently were given a sunken boat provided they could raise it from its place of capsizement and restore it. So they worked all of break and the result is this amazing boat that they plan to sail around the Caribbean this summer! They have put so much money into making it nice...new mahogany and oak all in the cabin, a tight GPS system...it really is beautiful and takes its maiden voyage (at least with its new owners) tomorrow! I helped them clean the cabin some more and wax a part of it. After we got back, some of my very best girlfriends and I went for a sunset bike ride on the island, which I've already expressed in this blog how glorious an activity this is for me. Then we made chocolate chip oatmeal cookies and watched an old classic: The Babysitter's Club. What a ridiculous day?! I will generally refrain in my blog from merely telling a day's events, but how can I help it when I've experienced such a day as I've recounted? The truth is: I get these kinds of days a lot...who am I?

pba myth-buster

We have this great chapel on campus donated to us primarily by the DeSantis family and I have always heard from the powers that be that the cross on the top of the bell tower is the highest point on our campus. I have always found this to be a dubious assertion but just taken their word for it. Well, I was walking today in between the Quattelbaum funeral home and the Greene complex from the music building to the theatre and I now take my stand: There is NO WAY that the cross is higher than ODP.

another semester

700 miles later + a few really good days with friends and I am back in classes. I'm excited about the ones I'm taking this semester. I have a really great Auditions class that will be super hard but so good for me. My schedule in general will be pretty crazy. On Mondays I will have rehearsal from 3:30-10:00 so I've got to go into work at Campus Ministries in the morning before my classes. It will be intense, but sooo exciting!

Today was an ipod day. Every so often I'll wake up and just know that it is an ipod day. Music is one of the Lord's biggest ministries to me so I carry that ipod with me on days I know will be extra tough or I can feel my spirit wavering and so on my way to classes I can be reminded to turn my focus on Him and that He is greater than my heart and in perfect control. I just love Him so much. I am absolutely dependent on the Lord...God save me from the days and the moments within every day that I forget this and fool myself into independence.

The wedding of Britney, my best friend from highschool and Erin, me, and Joy, her honorary bridesmaids. 

I got to spend a few hours today with these girls who are some of my closest friends from high school. Britney got married three weeks ago to another one of our high school friends, Mitch. They never dated back in the day, but went off to college and have been together since freshman year. It was really good to spend all that time with them. A lot of our conversation though was spent telling old stories and bringing up random people we went to grade school with or who the most recently engaged friends are. I hope that one day I live in the same city with them and we can become really close again. The three of them went to Auburn together and sometimes I'm sad about everything I missed out on with them, but without a doubt I know PBA was the right place for me to go and I wouldn't change that decision for a second.

It looks like me and my friend Amy are driving to Nashville tomorrow to try and go to some of the Passion conference. John Piper, Beth Moore, Watermark, Shane & Shane...I know, yeah we've got to try and get in even though tickets are supposedly sold out. But with 17,000 seats there's bound to be plenty of folks who didn't show up for registration. We'll see...it'll be an adventure and good time for me and her.

note to guys: ask that pretty girl to dance

For New Year's Eve I attended the wedding of my sister's childhood best friend, Catherine Reddick. Huge southern wedding with three Pastors Officiating, 13 bridesmaids, and at least that number of honorary attendants as well. A little too large for my taste, but it did make for a fun reception with so many people to mingle with.

Best part of the evening for me was dancing with my Daddy! He is so great and I can always count on him to make me look good on the dance floor at a wedding or anywhere there's dancing. We walked off to the claps of some onlookers...made my night. Now I LOVE to dance so I was definitely out there with everyone on some of the fun-to-dance-with-a-crowd numbers, but oh how I longed the rest of the night for some guy to twirl me around. He wouldn't have had to say his name or look at me the rest of the evening. There is just something so special about being asked to dance. That someone notices you and sees such a fun spirit that he is compelled to show you a good time dancing...it doesn't get any better for a woman. I am independent and happy, but on nights like last night I do look forward to a day when I'll have a permanent dance partner and he will delight in dancing with me like my Dad does. Even for girls who don't love to dance as much as I, most women long to be twirled, so guys, get a couple lessons and get out there on the dance floor!